For some people, marriage is more of a responsibility than an act of love. They take the relationship, like an occupation, instead of a love-powered connection, as they barrel through all the responsibilities involved. The pressure eventually gets to them and soon, the marriage ends in the signing of divorce papers. Such an incident could have been prevented if marriage and family counselors were consulted early.
Of course, a marriage counselor may not always be spot on with his advice, but the logic behind his suggestions should always be taken into consideration. Counselors, especially seasoned ones, have talked to hundreds and hundreds of couples, saving a good number of marriages in the process. You could bring revive the happier parts of relationship and make them the center of your marriage. Just the counselor guide you.